Respect: Honouring Others as Image-Bearers of God

Respect is showing esteem or reverence for other people and things. It calls us to recognise the dignity of every person as made in God’s image, to value their property, and to honour those entrusted with authority.

The Foundation of Respect

It is showing esteem or reverence for other people or things. We are to show courtesy and give honour to people because they are made in God’s image, understanding Christ died for them too. Their [personal] dignity will be enhanced as we value them and show our love. This attitude requires that we also respect people’s property because it is of value and meaning to them.

God does not show favouritism so He is not impressed by a person’s social standing. We all stand equal before Him – all His dealings are impartial and just (Act 10:34-35; Rom 2:11). We also are to value and believe the best for others, treating them in the same way without being influenced by their importance (Mt 25:35-45; Jas 2:8-9; 1 Pet 2:17).

Respect for Authority

The Bible states we are to respect the government, our employers, church leaders and all in authority because they are ordained by God, having delegated power to manage systems or organizations effectively and for the benefit of all within their sphere of activity (Act 23:5; Rom 13:1-7; 1 Thes 5:12-13; 1 Tim 5:17). Although David had several opportunities to kill Saul and so enter into that which he had been promised, he would not touch ‘the Lord’s anointed’ (the one in authority over him), but waited for God to intervene in the situation (1 Sam 24:6-20).

Respect translates into doing what is the highest good for people, as well as obeying them if they are in authority over us, and it doesn’t contravene God’s commands (Lk 6:46; Act 5:29). We are to respect our parents, regardless of their age or how unkind they may have been (Ex 20:12; Eph 6:1-3; Col 3:20). Even if we don’t naturally like another person we are obligated to honour the office or function they hold.

Respect in Everyday Life

Respect can’t be demanded but is earned by fulfilling your responsibilities and having a caring attitude. When we are faithful in the duties entrusted to us and show genuine concern for the wellbeing of others, our conduct naturally invites trust and regard. This kind of respect grows slowly through consistency and kindness, not through status, force, or self-promotion.

Do I respect others of different cultures or social groups?

Do not over-ride the choice another makes. Lay the options clearly before them, however the decision is ultimately theirs. Have mutual respect and consideration for others, especially those who are older; living by the Golden Rule (Lk 6:31; 1 Tim 5:1-2; 1 Pet 2:17, 5:5). Undisciplined, selfish people don’t respect or submit to authorities as they represent boundaries or limitations, preventing them doing what they want to do.

Reflection and Application:

Do I show honour to people simply because they are made in God’s image?
Am I willing to respect authority even when I disagree with the person in office?
Do I treat people from every culture and social group with equal dignity?
Do I allow others to make their own choices rather than controlling them?