Gentleness: Strength Under Control

Gentleness, also translated as 'meekness,' represents a profound quality of character that reflects the very nature of Christ. It does not indicate weakness but rather strength under control – humility and thankfulness toward God, accompanied by polite, restrained behaviour toward others. This virtue transforms how we interact with the world, demonstrating love in action through considerate behaviour that meets the needs of others.

Understanding Biblical Gentleness

Paul wrote, "By the meekness and gentleness of Christ..." (2 Cor 10:1), demonstrating that this quality was central to Jesus' ministry and character. David, in declaring, "O Lord your gentleness has made me great" recognised that God's mercy and ability enabled him to live uprightly (Ps 18:35). This understanding is vastly different from the world's belief that aggression, talent and opportunities are the keys to greatness and advancement.

The Biblical foundation

Gentleness is a 'fruit of the Spirit' reflecting God's righteous and holy nature (Gal 5:23). It manifests as love in action, being considerate, and meeting the needs of others, as "a mother caring for her little children" (1 Thes 2:7). It is treating others how we would like to be treated (Lk 6:31) – the golden rule lived out through daily interactions.

Jesus' Example of Gentleness

Jesus demonstrated perfect gentleness in His ministry. He was kind and considerate to the helpless and those seeking to enter His 'better' way of life. His compassion extended to the marginalized, the sick, and those seeking spiritual truth. Yet His gentleness did not compromise truth or righteousness.

Do I reflect Christ's example?

To the religious leaders who opposed the manifestation of God's power and should have been signposts for good, Jesus was scathing (Mt 21:12-13, 23:13-33). This reveals that gentleness does not mean we go easy on those who try to justify actions that God has called sin, or let them continue in sin without challenging them with the truth of the Word and the holiness that God calls us to.

Living Out Gentleness

Paul stated, "The servant of the Lord must not strive but be gentle [kind] to all" (2 Tim 2:24). This instruction applies to every believer, calling us to embody gentleness in all our relationships and interactions. Yet our holding others to account must be done in a mild, loving and encouraging way, for the Bible says, "If anyone is caught in a trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness" (Gal 6:1).

Is this quality increasing in my life?

This quality should be increasing in our lives as we grow in Christ. Gentleness becomes evident in how we speak to one another, how we handle conflict, and how we respond to those who disagree with us or mistreat us. It requires the Holy Spirit's work within us, transforming our hearts and enabling us to respond with grace rather than defensiveness or harshness.

Reflection and Application:

Consider how Jesus demonstrated gentleness to the helpless but firmness toward religious hypocrisy – how can this balance inform your own responses?
Ask God to reveal areas where pride or harshness may be hindering your ability to reflect His gentle nature to others.
Practice responding with gentleness in a challenging situation this week, relying on the Holy Spirit's strength rather than your own reactions.
Reflect on David's declaration that God's gentleness made him great – how has God's gentleness transformed your life?