Closure

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This marks the closing stages of a situation, such as the end of a relationship or resolving an unpleasant circumstance. Often, it involves understanding the state of affairs more clearly and accepting the outcome, allowing us to move forward and leave the past behind. It is important to learn from these situations and reflect on them for

Closure brings a feeling of completeness and finality

personal growth, so as not to be negatively impacted by them in the future. Accepting what cannot be changed is freeing and empowering, preventing it from having an ongoing detrimental effect.

Don’t rush into terminating what has deteriorated. Rather than acting on impulse, seek the Lord’s mind for direction on which relationships He wants you to let go of, and which ones to nurture and protect. Sometimes, seeking closure can destroy the relationships the Lord wants us, with humility to work through to preserve and protect. Conversely, while breakups are hard, in the long term, they may be best, especially if the other person is not walking the same spiritual pathway and would lead us astray too (Amos 3:3).

When dealing with a relationship, discussing the events and asking questions is beneficial in providing a rationale for the breakup, but don’t assign blame. To facilitate healing, refrain from revisiting the issues and set clear boundaries to limit further contact. Act honourably and release negative feelings about yourself or the other person. Extending forgiveness both to the other person and ourselves is a godly way to protect our emotional well-being, besides trusting in His plans, even when situations don't have a clear ending (Eph 4:32). As much as you are able, tie up loose ends so you can satisfactorily put the matter behind you. Commit yourself into God’s loving care, for He is working for your ultimate good (Prov 3:5,6; Rom 8:28,29; Phil 1:6). Determine to experience His best, rather than stubbornly holding to what you want and know is contrary to His ways.

In many aspects of life, closure comes from accepting God’s control over situations beyond our human understanding or influence. His sovereignty and providence are beyond our comprehension, so open your heart to His guidance. Although hard, face up to your shattered dreams, maybe

Whatever the issue, God can give you the grace to move forward

distressing divorce, changing relationships, and the physical death of loved ones, so you can proceed through life.  What may seem like a devastating closure or end could be an opportunity for spiritual redirection and new opportunities. Allow God to heal your memories so they don't cripple you emotionally.

By aligning ourselves with divine wisdom, remaining prepared and open-hearted, we can navigate closures with hope and grace, understanding that every end indicates a new beginning in God’s eternal plan. Closure is about trusting God’s timig and letting go of what we can’t control. Trust in God’s plan and move forward with faith. Closure can also mean finding God’s grace and strength to go on, discovering His power and help, which we lack, and forgiveness.  God’s grace has given us the means of applying closure to the sins of our past, for when we repent of wrongdoing, turn from it, God remembers it no more (Isa 43:25; 1 Jn 1:9).  

See also: acceptance, boundaries, feelings, forgiveness, memory, providence, relationships, sovereignty of God, wounded.