Victim: Understanding Biblical Perspectives on Suffering and Resilience

A victim is a person who suffers physical, emotional, or financial harm from a crime, accident, or other adverse circumstance. Abel was the victim of Cain's ungodly activity, and a tower fell upon 18 people in Siloam (Gen 4:8; Lk 13:4). The Psalmist declared he was "Being persecuted without cause" (Ps 119:86). Jesus was also unfairly treated, as were the early church leaders and many people throughout history, especially because of their Christian faith.

It is wrong to victimize others by treating them harshly (Prov 22:22,23; Jas 5:4). When you are the victim of events you didn't choose and had little or no control over, you don't have to remain a victim but instead commit yourself to the Lord and endeavor to respond in the opposite spirit (Ps 10:14; Mt 5:11,12; 1 Pet 3:9). The words of Jesus are, "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (Mt 5:44). By showing love and extending forgiveness, instead of trying to get even, it will make the perpetrator ashamed of their actions (Prov 25:22; Rom 12:20). Take responsibility for your attitudes, stop rehearsing the hurts, recognizing you have much to be grateful for.

If you are a victim, try not to allow self-pity or a victim mentality to develop. Rather, be like Paul and Silas, who, although their backs were bleeding and sore, rejoiced in God. Consequently, their situation radically altered, and more people became Christians as a

Keep your eyes on Christ, not the situation against you

result (Act 16:22-40). God is in control, and although He allows situations that are not in agreement with His character, do not doubt His love – instead look for the good that is buried in what is abhorrent (Rom 8:28). The Bible encourages us to, "Fix your eyes on Jesus...who for the joy set before Him endured the cross..." (Heb 12:2).

If you are suffering from abusive actions, think through, are you doing something to irritate the situation? If so, endeavour to address these issues. Seek intervention from the various authorities that provide support in the specific areas.

"Though you have made me see many and bitter troubles, you will restore my life" and this may be so we can empathize with and comfort those who are currently in similar troubles (Ps 71:20; 2 Cor 1:3,4). God's perspective is different from ours, and eternity will reveal many answers to questions that trouble us in this sin-affected world. He does not condemn us for the wicked things done to us, but offers to draw near to the broken-hearted and comfort those who struggle (Ps 34:18).

The Bible states, "Nothing in all creation can separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Rom 8:35-39). We are not helpless victims; we can always choose to bless the Lord in all situations (Ps 34:1; 1 Thes 5:18).