Foul Language: Dirty Talk, Profanity and Coarse Speech
Our words carry immense weight, revealing the condition of our hearts and shaping the world around us. Scripture consistently emphasises
the power of speech—for good or for ill—and calls believers to guard their tongues carefully.
The Heart Revealed Through Speech
Our speech reveals what is in our heart, and when we give account to God for every frivolous word spoken, they will either justify or condemn us because of inappropriate language we have spoken (Mt 12:35-36). The tongue serves as an authentic indicator of our inner spiritual condition.
What comes out of our mouth makes us unclean – Luke 6:45
As our words have a tremendous impact on others, we must ensure we only speak what is beneficial and helpful to them. Dirty stories, foul talk, and coarse jokes are out of place in a Christian's conversation because they don't reflect God's nature within (Eph 4:29, 5:4).
Hence, the exhortation to, "Rid yourself of...filthy language from your lips" (Col 3:8). Our speech should be characterised by grace, building others up rather than tearing them down.
The Challenge of Self-Control
The tongue is very difficult to control, especially when you are tired, frustrated, or around others who do not hold to god-honouring principles (Isa 6:5; Jas 3:2-12). James describes the tongue as a small part of the body that makes great boasts, set on fire by hell itself.
If anyone is never at fault in what they say, they are perfect – James 3:2
No human being can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil, full of deadly poison (Jas 3:8). This reality humbles us and drives us to depend upon God's grace and the Holy Spirit's work in transforming our speech patterns.
Honouring God's Name
We must not misuse God's name with common expressions, such as 'Oh my God' (Ex 20:7). The Third Commandment prohibits taking the Lord's name in vain, emphasising the sacredness of God's character and the reverence due to Him.
You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God – Exodus 20:7
This principle extends beyond mere phrases to include any speech that dishonours God or treats His name lightly, including the phrase, 'Oh my God'. Our words should always reflect a deep respect for who God is and what He has done for us.
Reflection and Application:
- Examine your speech patterns: what do they reveal about your heart?
- Identify situations where you are most tempted to use inappropriate language.
- Pray specifically for God's help in taming your tongue.
- Practise speaking words that build up and encourage others.
See also: profanity, self-control, speech, swear, tongue, words.