Exhibitionism: The Sin of Showing Off and Drawing Attention to Oneself

Exhibitionism is the tendency to display oneself or one's actions in a manner designed to attract attention, often rooted in pride and vanity rather than genuine virtue. This behaviour manifests when individuals seek recognition, admiration, or applause from others, motivated by a desire for validation rather than sincere faith or authentic character. It can take many forms, from subtle attempts to draw notice to overt displays that deliberately expose one's actions, appearance, or achievements for public consumption. At its core, exhibitionism reveals a heart that draws attention to self as opposed to making Christ famous by letting our light shine (Mt 5:16), creating a disconnect between outward appearance and inner reality.

Biblical Perspective on Public Display

The religious leaders of Jesus' day made an open public display of their virtues, including good works, praying, and fasting (Mt 6:1-18). In contrast, Jesus taught that His followers should not draw attention to themselves with their spiritual practices. He emphasised that acts of righteousness should be done secretly, with God as the sole witness and reward-giver. There is a godly balance between glorifying God and praise of man—when our good deeds are done with pure motives, they can indeed be seen by others and point them to God, rather than drawing attention to ourselves.

Does my praying in public reflect my own times of heartfelt, private praying, or is it just a façade to try to impress those listening (Lk 20:47)? Do I conspicuously do things so others will consider me 'spiritual'? The heart motive behind public displays of spirituality reveals whether we seek God's approval or human applause.

Cultural Manifestations

Showing off to impress is not God honouring

In contemporary society, exhibitionism manifests in various ways. Teenage females may provocatively reveal much of their bodies, as this behaviour gets them attention from males. Social media platforms have amplified this tendency, with individuals carefully curating their online personas to maximise likes, comments, and followers.

These outward expressions often stem from a deeper need for validation and acceptance. The desire to be seen, admired, and applauded can become an idol that drives behaviour, leading people to compromise their values and modesty for temporary attention.

The heart behind the display matters

Modern Definitions and Consequences

Nowadays, this term is also used to describe behaviour that goes beyond what attracts attention to the indecent exposure of the genitals in public. Such actions are not only socially unacceptable but often illegal, reflecting a deeper distortion of human dignity and appropriate boundaries.

These are examples of the sinful vanity and prideful attitude that is within. God sees our heart and the motive behind all we do. Jesus commended the widow, whose two small coins given into the temple treasury were of greater value than the large sums of money visibly given by the rich (Mk 12:41-44).

God sees the heart

Reflection and Application:

Examine your motives when doing good deeds—are you seeking God's approval or human recognition?
Consider whether your social media presence reflects humility or a need for attention and validation.
Practise doing acts of kindness and service in secret, known only to you and God.
Ask God to reveal areas of pride and vanity in your heart that need confession and transformation.