Consideration: The Art of Thinking of Others

Consideration is the thoughtful practice of placing others' needs and feelings before our own desires, reflecting the compassionate heart of Christ in all our interactions.

Understanding Biblical Consideration

A considerate person thinks of others, rather than demanding their own way. The golden rule of "Doing to others as we would, they do to us" is a good motto to live by (Lk 6:31). Joseph wanted to spare Mary the public disgrace of being an unmarried mother (Mt 1:19). Be tactful – everyone has their trying days. Scripture particularly challenges husbands to be 'considerate of your wives', understanding some times of the month can be very taxing on them, and fathers not to irritate their children (Eph 6:4; 1 Pet 3:7).

Christ's Example of Consideration

The Bible instructs us to be caring and respectful of others, setting forth Christ as the ultimate example (Rom 15:1-3; Eph 4:2; Phil 2:3-5, 4:5). Jesus illustrated this attitude with the parable of the Good Samaritan whose kindness to the wounded traveler extended to meet his full recovery (Lk 10:33-35). "Nobody should seek their own good, but the good of others...for with such sacrifices God is well pleased" (1 Cor 10:24; Tit 3:2; Heb13:16).

Living Considerately in Christian Community

We should even refrain from various legitimate things if it could be the cause of another stumbling in their Christian walk (Rom 14:13,19-21; 1 Cor 8:9-13; 2 Cor 6:3). This self-restraint demonstrates the depth of true consideration – not merely avoiding harm but actively promoting the spiritual wellbeing of others.

Is consideration of others a characteristic of my life?

Reflection and Application:

  • How can I practice greater consideration in my daily interactions with family and friends?
  • What legitimate activities might I need to refrain from to prevent others from stumbling?
  • In what ways does the Good Samaritan's example challenge my current level of consideration?
  • How can I cultivate a more Christ-like attitude of thinking of others first?

See also: concern, golden rule, others.