Ask: Seeking God with Faith and Alignment to His Will

Jesus said, “Ask…seek…knock…Though you are evil you know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask Him” (Mt 7:7-11). “I will do whatever you ask in my name…You may ask me for anything in my name [what is in agreement with His will, the furtherance of His Kingdom and will result in His glory], and I will do it” (Jn 14:13,14, 15:16). This does not mean Jesus is obligated to grant every request like a vending machine. If our requests are contrary to His character or will, we cannot expect them to be fulfilled (Jas 4:3). Therefore, understanding God’s nature and purposes is essential.

The Nature of Asking in Faith

Asking God reflects our dependence on Him and acknowledges our limitations. “You do not have because you do not ask God” (Jas 4:2). It is an act of faith—believing that He hears and responds. James encourages believers: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him” (Jas 1:5). But such asking must be rooted in trust: “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting” (Jas 1:6). Faith expects an answer, aligning our desires with God’s wisdom.

Prayer is not a ritual but a relationship. Paul instructs, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God” (Phil 4:6). God invites us into intimate conversation, where we bring our needs with gratitude. And His response often exceeds our imagination: “Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or think…” (Eph 3:20).

Persistence and Divine Timing

Sometimes, answers are delayed not because God is unwilling, but to develop persistence and refine our motives. Jesus taught the parable of the persistent widow to show that we should “always pray and not lose heart” (Lk 18:1–8). Likewise, Paul’s thorn in the flesh was not removed, but grace was given for it (2 Cor 12:7–9). Delay may signal a “no” or a “not yet,” revealing God’s greater plan. Continued asking helps discern whether a desire is fleeting or divinely inspired.

Praying Through to Assurance

“Praying through” occurs when the Holy Spirit bears witness within that the request has been granted. At this point, faith shifts from petitioning to thanking. We stop asking and begin thanking God for the answer, even before it manifests visibly. This spiritual confidence honours God’s faithfulness and strengthens our walk with Him.

Although God is not reluctant to give good things, there is often value in persisting in prayer. Continued asking cultivates perseverance, while delay may reveal whether a desire is passing or purposeful. Ultimately, God’s “no” or redirection reflects His wisdom and love, guiding us into His best.

Ask and receive that your joy may be full – John 16:24

In daily life, it's best to avoid seeking help from others when we are capable of handling tasks ourselves or when it is our responsibility. When interacting with others, asking questions can help clear up any uncertainties. Whenever we make requests, we should be polite and, as we would with requests to God, remember to express our gratitude promptly.

Reflection and Application:

Examine your motives: Are your requests aligned with God’s will or personal desire?
Cultivate persistence in prayer, trusting God’s timing even when answers are delayed.
Seek wisdom through prayer, especially in times of uncertainty or decision-making.
Practice thanksgiving as part of every request, acknowledging God’s provision and sovereignty.