Approval: Seeking God’s Commendation Above Human Praise

In a world that often measures worth by popularity, success, and external validation, the biblical perspective on approval challenges us to reevaluate our motives and priorities. True approval, from a spiritual standpoint, is not found in the applause of people but in the quiet affirmation of a faithful life before God.

God’s Approval vs. Human Approval

Worldly success does not necessarily reflect God’s approval. In many areas of life, divine standards stand in contrast to human values. Scripture reminds us that we must ultimately give account to God for our actions (Rom 14:12). Therefore, our aim should not be to gain the acceptance of others at the expense of obedience to God, but to live uprightly before Him. The Pharisees, for example, sought the praise of men rather than the approval of God (Jn 12:43), revealing a heart more concerned with image than integrity.

God delights in those whose hearts are open and yielded to Him—those who walk in justice, mercy, and humility (Mic 6:8) and are filled with the fruit of righteousness for His glory (Phil 1:10). The apostle Paul urges believers: “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth” (2 Tim 2:15). This divine approval comes not from performance, but from faithful stewardship and a life aligned with God’s truth.

True approval from another—whether from a leader, mentor, or God Himself—comes when we faithfully fulfill what is entrusted to us (Mt 25:14–30). The servant who says, “We have only done our duty” (Lk 17:10), recognizes that obedience is not a means to earn praise, but a response to clear expectations. When we are in positions of authority, it is our responsibility to communicate those expectations clearly—through instruction, demonstration, and feedback.

Am I as quick to voice my approval, as I am to criticise?

We should regularly evaluate our efforts to ensure they meet the required standard, even asking, “Is this acceptable?” Being open to correction and willing to adjust our course reflects maturity and humility. Even when someone’s work falls short of our personal standard, if they have given their best, we should offer encouragement rather than harsh criticism. Positive reinforcement fosters growth; negativity can lead to discouragement and withdrawal.

Living for God’s Pleasure, Not Man’s Praise

While we are called to consider others and act in ways that please them for their good (Rom 15:2), we must never compromise God’s commands or abandon our convictions. There are times when we must take a stand, even if it brings disapproval. Jesus declared, “I always do the things that please Him” (Jn 8:29), and the Father affirmed Him: “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased” (Mt 17:5). Our highest calling is to bring joy to God through faithful obedience.

King Saul tragically chose the approval of his soldiers over obedience to God’s clear command, and in doing so, lost the kingship (1 Sam 15:3, 24, 26, 30). In the same way, many in Jesus’ day believed in Him but refused to follow openly because they “loved the praise of men more than the praise of God” (John 12:43). When human approval becomes more important than divine approval, it can lead to spiritual compromise and even eternal consequences (Mt 10:32–33; Mk 12:30).

Our motivation should be to live for God’s glory, not to avoid criticism or gain affirmation. Seeking man’s approval often stems from insecurity, fear of rejection, or a need for control. But relationships built on honesty and unconditional love are stronger than those maintained through compliance. Jesus exemplified this balance—He served with grace and compassion (Lk 4:22; Acts 10:38), yet He never hesitated to speak truth, even when it provoked opposition (Mt 23:15; Jn 2:14–16).

Seek His approval, not man's

Living by God’s values will inevitably create tension with a world that demands conformity to its shifting standards. Yet, as believers, our loyalty is first to Christ. We are accountable to God, and that accountability shapes how we live, decide, and relate.

Reflection and Application:

Am I more concerned with what people think of me than with what God thinks?
Do I offer encouragement and affirmation to others, or am I quick to criticise?
Have I compromised my convictions to fit in or gain approval?
Is my life bringing glory to God through faithful obedience, regardless of recognition?