Appropriate: Living with Integrity and Purpose

Living an appropriate life means aligning our actions, speech, and attitudes with biblical principles, ensuring that we reflect Christ in all we do. It is not merely about avoiding wrongdoing, but actively pursuing righteousness in a way that honors God and builds trust with others.

Integrity in the Face of Temptation

We are called to guard our integrity, especially in areas where temptation is strong—money, relationships, and pride. These areas, often referred to as “gold, gals, and glory,” can subtly erode our moral foundation if we are not vigilant. By avoiding compromising situations and seeking accountability, we protect both our conscience and our witness.

Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone – Romans 12:17

Biblical Standards for Christian Conduct

The Apostle Paul consistently emphasizes conduct that reflects the Fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Gal 5:22-23). In his letters to the Ephesians and Colossians, he urges believers to walk wisely and be filled with the Spirit (Eph 5:15-20; Col 3:5-25). These are not outdated rules, but timeless principles for living a life that pleases God.

While Paul gives specific guidance for Christian women regarding modesty and good works (1 Tim 2:9-10), the call to live worthily extends to all believers—men, women, and children alike. We are to “live a life worthy of the Lord and please Him in every way” (Col 1:10), ensuring our behavior brings no reproach upon the name of Christ.

Obedience as a Reflection of Love

Jesus made it clear that our love for Him is demonstrated through obedience: “If you love me, keep my commands” (John 14:15). This is not legalism, but a response of love and trust. When we align our lives with God’s Word, we show that we value His wisdom above our own desires.

Our actions, speech, and appearance should reflect modesty, humility, and a desire to honor God. As Daniel’s life showed, when we remain faithful, even under pressure, God ensures that no charge can be brought against us (Dan 6:4). Likewise, Peter encourages us to keep our conduct honorable among the unbelieving world, so that they may see our good deeds and glorify God (1 Pet 3:16).

Reflection and Application:

Ask yourself: “Does this choice reflect the Fruit of the Spirit?”
Consider whether your actions could be misunderstood—seek accountability.
Let obedience be your response to God’s love, not out of duty but devotion.
Strive to live so that others see Christ in you, not self-promotion.